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Sexual Assault: (209) 465-4997
Youth/Human Trafficking: (209) 948-1911

 

Did you know that children from violent homes often display a variety of behavioral characteristics as a result of living in an unpredictable environment? Many of these characteristics are similar to those exhibited by children who have been abused in other ways.

Recent studies show that 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 7 boys are sexually abused before they reach the age of 18 years, and that in homes where domestic violence is present, 50% of children living in those homes are abused physically and/or emotionally.

Characteristics of Children from Violent Homes

Children often have the following characteristics as a result of living in a violent and unpredictable environment. Many of these characteristics are similar to those of children who have been physically or sexually abused. In fact, many children who grow up in homes in which a parent is abused are abused themselves.

Feelings children most commonly feel:

  • Worthless and powerless
  • Guilt, feel responsible for the problem
  • Depressed
  • Lonely, shy, and fearful
  • Suicidal or have homicidal thoughts towards their parent(s)
  • Fear, disgust, and rage toward either parent
  • The need to be “perfect” to keep everyone happy
  • Embarrassment and humiliation

Behaviors most children exhibit:

  • Aggressive behaviors and nightmares
  • Isolate themselves from other children
  • Short attention span
  • Acting anxious and/having nervous disorders
  • Bullying other children, acting abusive, or being violent towards others
  • High risk for alcohol and drug abuse
  • Have a record of poor school attendance and difficulties in learning
  • May say that they HATE their abusive parent OR side with the abusive parent in BLAMING the other parent
  • Accepting and expecting violence in their present or future relationships
  • Using violence to express frustration, anger, and stress

Physical clues:

  • Physically or sexually abused
  • Emotionally and physically neglected
  • Injured, accidentally or intentionally, while intervening
  • Bed-wetting, headaches, and stomach-aches
  • Self-abusive
  • Frequent illness
  • Poor school attendance 

 

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WCYFS cares deeply about the health of its community, supporters, clients and team. Due to rising concerns around the coronavirus (COVID-19) pandemic and recommendations from government agencies, we have made changes to ensure the safety of everyone.

Effective immediately, the following programs, services and events are limited, postponed or cancelled:

 

In-Person Services are Limited 

  • Our 24-Hour helplines are available for over the phone crisis services.

24-Hour Helplines 
Domestic Violence | (209) 465-4878 
Sexual Assault | (209) 465-4997 
Youth/Human Trafficking | (209) 948-1911 

  • Client appointments are available by phone.
  • Court accompaniment will be on a case-by-case basis at this time. 
  • We are still available to assist with any urgent temporary restraining order (TRO) needs over the phone during business hours (209) 941-2611.

Locations Open

  • San Joaquin Street Office
  • California Street Office
  • DAWN House
  • Safe House
  • Opportunity House

Locations Closed Until Further Notice 

  • WCYFS’ Youth Drop-In Center is closed to the public, but WCYFS will continue to provide food to youth clients in need. Youth clients are able to pick up food at the California Street Office from 11:00 AM - 3:00 PM, Monday through Friday.
  • Lodi Office
  • Serenity House

Postponed until further notice

  • WCYFS 40th Annual Luncheon
  • Victim Assistance Training (VAT)

Cancelled until further notice 

  • Support Groups
  • Parenting Courses 

We apologize for any inconvenience and thank you for your understanding and support! Please call us at (209) 941-2611 or check back for any new updates.